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一 |     Legendary actor Dharmendra, also known as Bollywood's He-Man, passed away today, leaving a void in the industry. Ever since the news broke, not just his fans, but the industry folks have been sharing tributes on social media and recalling their association with him. A couple of years back, Filmfare had spoken exclusively to Rajveer Deol, Dharmendra's grandson and Sunny Deol's son about his grandfather. He spoke to us about the things he learnt from the veteran actor and his bond with him.          Talking about his bonding with Dharmendra, Rajveer said, "He used to pamper me, giving me literally anything I asked him. I was close to him growing up. And so was my brother. I’ve learnt from him that the main thing is the craft of acting; that stardom is something I should not really pay attention to. And if it comes, it comes. It’s not something you chase."     Sunny Deol’s younger son Rajveer Deol made his debut in Dono, directed by Sooraj Barjatya’s son Avnish and co-starring Poonam Dhillon’s daughter Paloma. Talking about how Dharmendra was always a fan favourite, he continued, "And I love that. It feels good just to see him connect with fans. He puts himself out there completely and he responds to people he interacts with."          Asked whether he grew up watching his grandfather’s films, Rajveer answered, "I’ve watched a lot of movies starring my father, grandfather, and even my uncle, Bobby Deol. But those weren’t the only movies I’ve watched. I’ve seen a lot of world cinema and regional cinema as well."     Dharmendra made his debut in 1960 and quickly became a superstar. He was known for his versatility, mastering roles from the romantic hero to the tough action star. His career boasts over 300 films, many of which are considered classics today. Some of his most memorable performances include the iconic role of Veeru in the cult classic Sholay, as well as memorable performances in Phool Aur Patthar, Seeta Aur Geeta, Chupke Chupke, Dharam Veer, and Pratigya. His natural charm and powerful screen presence earned him millions of fans worldwide.Also Read: Exclusive: Rajveer Deol on taking his father Sunny Deol and grandfather Dharmendra’s legacy forward。

二 |     不想旅行变“修行”？和父母沟通的这些雷区不要踩     出发前：差点吵起来     上个月，我趁着休假带爸妈去了一趟周边的小城，三天两夜。本来想让他们放松，结果出发前一天，我就踩了雷。    我问老妈：“你想去哪儿？”她说：“随便。”我又问：“那我来安排？”她笑着答：“你们这样乱花钱不行的。”     我知道她是怕我花钱，但当时差点接一句“那到底去不去”。后来学乖了，直接告诉她酒店已经订好，不能退。    带父母出门，怕的就是让他们做选择题。他们不是没想法，是怕给你添麻烦。    头一天：慢一点，再慢一点     头一天到了景区，我习惯性地想多走几个点。老爸腿脚不好，走了一会儿就找地方坐着。当地接待的朋友从包里掏出折叠凳给他坐，我才意识到自己安排得太密了。

三 |     中午吃饭，老妈随口说了一句“这虾酱真香”。没想到下午就有人塞了两罐真空包装的过来，说是当地特产，让带回去吃。老妈一边收一边说：“这多不好意思。

四 | ”对方说：“阿姨喜欢，带回去吃。”     晚上回车上，我发现座位旁边放着保温壶，每天灌满热水。这种小细节，我没想到，但有人替我想到了。    第二天：他们有自己的节奏     第二天在景区，有个池塘，里面很多锦鲤。老妈蹲在旁边喂鱼，喂了整整半小时。

五 |     我催她：“前面还有塔呢。”她说：“不急，慢慢来。”我忽然觉得自己像个导游，老想着打卡。其实出来玩，又不是赶集。

六 |     后来上了塔顶，老爸掏出手机，拍了十几张照片。

七 | 不是拍风景，是拍塔上的瓦片和屋檐。他说：“这里像小时候的村子。”我从来没听他讲过小时候的事。    第三天：别总问“累不累”     第三天上午，我习惯性问：“你们累不累？”老爸说：“累啥，比在家走得多。”老妈接了句：“这一趟不错，下次还出来。”我听了挺高兴。    结果我又犯了错——我说：“那我回去做个攻略。”老妈摆摆手：“不用你做，我们自己也能走。”     我这才明白，他们不是需要我安排一切，只是需要有人陪，但不需要被当成小孩管。    回来以后     回家后，老爸把塔顶的照片翻来覆去看，还给亲戚挨个看。

八 | 老妈把那两罐虾酱放在冰箱里，说等过节再开。我偷偷把行程里那些“必去”的景点删了，想着下次再带他们出去，就找一个地方住下，每天散散步，喂喂鱼，聊聊天。    不想旅行变“修行”，其实很简单：少一点“我为了你好”，多一点“你说了算”。    我给自己列了几条，留着下次出门前看：     别问“你想去哪儿”，直接给两个选项。    别催，他们有自己的节奏。    别把行程排满，留一个下午发呆。    别问“累不累”，问“这地方好看吗”。    不知道下次能不能做到，先写上再说。              返回，查看更多。

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