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8月18日中超联赛焦点大战上海申花主场与北京国安赛后不久，社交媒体上的一个短视频迅速引发热议，散场过程中，一位成年人（应该是父亲）带着穿印有7号武磊名字红色球衣的小孩子一起往外走。    During the two-day visit, the American head of state will meet with Israel's top officials. These will include the new prime minister, Yair Lapid, alternate PM Naftali Bennett, as well as opposition leader Benjamin Netanyahu. He is also set to visit an Iron Dome missile defense base, a system developed jointly by the US and Israel.,The main focus of the US president’s upcoming trip will be a stop in Saudi Arabia, Danny Ayalon, Israel's former ambassador to the US, believes,"In the upcoming trip, the focus will be on Jeddah. Of course, the Saudis will not normalize relations with Israel but cooperation will be on the table.",Riyadh has repeatedly said that a normalization pact with Israel is not possible unless the Palestinian issue is resolved. Israel, which has just entered a transitional period ahead of the November midterm elections is not in a position to offer concessions, apart from symbolic gestures such as granting more work permits to Gazans or allowing crowds to pray at the Al Aqsa Mosque in Jerusalem.,But what Israel can offer to the Saudis, Ayalon says, is a solution to an issue that has been bothering them for years – control over the Tiran and Sanafir Islands in the Red Sea.,The two islands were under Saudi jurisdiction until 1950, when Riyadh transferred them to Egypt. Israel captured them during the Six Day War, but later returned them to Cairo as part of the 1979 bilateral peace treaty.,Egypt has been in control of the islands since then, but in 2016 President Abdel Fattah al-Sisi promised to give them back to the Saudis. However, for that to happen, he needs the consent of the Israelis, due to the terms of the 1979 agreement.,Back then, Israeli consent was not given. Now, however, it seems to be on the table, Ayalon says. He stresses that Israel may use the issue as a bargaining chip in talks on the opening of Saudi airspace for Israeli planes or on defense cooperation. The latter is crucial for Riyadh, he says, especially in light of the threat emanating from Yemen's Houthi rebels, linked to Iran.,"Of course, the Saudis will continue with their lip service to the Palestinians, but cooperation will be taking place under the radar. However, the scope of that cooperation will not be big", the former diplomat says. "There is a generation gap between the Saudi king and his son, Crown Prince Mohammed Bin Salman, and unless there is a shift, nothing will move towards the formalization of ties," he added.,Palestinian Issue,Before Biden came to power, he vowed to support the two-state solution, resume funding for the Palestinians that was halted under his predecessor, and open the American Consulate in East Jerusalem to counter balance their embassy in the western part of the disputed city.,More than a year after his inauguration, many of the issues he had promised to resolve are still up in the air.,The US Consulate hasn't been opened in East Jerusalem yet, and doubts run high as to whether it ever will. The Palestinian Liberation Organization's office in Washington that was shut under President Donald Trump is still closed. Funds that were given to the Palestinians in the past have not been fully restored.,The Palestinians have repeatedly stressed their dissatisfaction with the lack of progress on their front, and Ayalon says the arrival of Biden is aimed at calming the mood.,"There won't be any breakthrough on the Palestinian front. But Biden does want to take some credit for the economic assistance to the Palestinians, and he does want to bolster the security cooperation between Israel and the PA, sending a message to Hamas.",Iran Nuclear Deal,Although last week another round of talks between the US and Iran ended in a stalemate, Washington is still interested in pursuing that path.,If a deal is reached, the US would remove many of its sanctions from the Islamic Republic in exchange for the ability to supervise Tehran's nuclear program.,The deal taking shape is disturbing officials in Jerusalem and Riyadh, who claim that a nuclear Iran might threaten their security, allegations Tehran has repeatedly denied. Ayalon says Biden's visit will try to mitigate the damage. He will also try to "get the support of Israel for the deal". But the Jewish state is unlikely to be convinced, even under the leadership of the more liberal Yair Lapid.,Israel’s Prime Minister Claims Iran ‘Dangerously Close’ to Obtaining Nuclear Weapons12 June, 00:10 GMT,The Israeli PM is heading to Paris on Tuesday, where he will meet President Emmanuel Macron to discuss the deal with Iran and attempts by the Islamic Republic to remove its Revolutionary Guards from the list of terror organizations.,In September, he is also planning a trip to New York, where he will address the United Nations General Assembly and raise the issue of Iran once again.,"Lapid is likely to tell Biden that Israel is not bound by this agreement, if it does happen. Israel will emphasize that it will have a free hand when it comes to Iran, and that also means that it can adhere to plan B," Ayalon said, referring to a military option.,Russia's Operation in Ukraine,However, Biden is not only going to Israel for the sake of regional issues, the former diplomat claims. His visit to Israel and Saudi Arabiacomes amid raging hostilities in Ukraine, and the US head of state will try to convince the two Middle Eastern nations to stand by the side of Washington, he adds.,Although Saudi Arabia cracked under the American pressure to pump more oil, prices on crude continue to climb, shaking the economies of the US and Europe.,Israel, on its part, has also taken a lukewarm approach vis-a-vis Ukraine. Although it has publicly denounced Russian actions, absorbed thousands of Ukrainian refugees, and provided thousands more with medical and humanitarian assistance, it has not joined sanctions against Russia. And Ayalon says his country is not planning to change its course.,"President Vladimir Putin has been friendly with Israel for all these years. Plus, we have a big Russian population in this country. So I doubt Israel will join the Western sanctions against Moscow. It is simply not in our interests," he concluded.。其间，几位主队球迷用激动的情绪伴随着粗口质问孩子父亲为何要这么做。十秒左右的视频里，小孩子看上去有些蒙，眼神中有点害怕；因为散场过程中人流拥挤，他的父亲一直拉着孩子尽量远离几位情绪激动的球迷。主队球迷质问“为什么要这么做”，心里考量的是足球的德比文化，众所周知，武磊是主队申花同城对手海港阵中过去十多年时间的当家球星，或许在申花球迷眼里，小球迷父亲让孩子穿武磊球衣的行为并不妥当。

B | 值得一提的是，相关争议性事件最近一两年时间并不是第一次出现，社交媒体上几次有过两队球迷穿主队球衣去对方主场看球的案例，过程中也有过几次言语冲突。此番事件关注度急剧升级，一方面是因为涉及了未成年小孩，抛开足球文化，就社会大众视角而言，任何在未成年人面前展示的不文明现象都应该被谴责，无法得知这是小孩子第几次现场看球，但对于热爱足球的孩子来说，不应该让他们刚开始走进球场时，先学会了害怕。其次，本身一切足球场内的事情，应该随着90分钟比赛的结束而终结，不应该继续在看台外继续发酵。申花0比3输给国安，球迷场外的不文明行为难免就会让外界贴上把输球情绪投射到未成年孩子身上的标签，这无论对个体还是对群体，都是负面的结果。“@武磊官方微博”发布寻找小球迷微博不久前的上海德比赛后，警方通报浦东足球场周边道路上发生一起打架案件。四名球迷在球场外发生争吵，继而引起肢体冲突。最终导致的结果是，上述四人均已被警方依法刑事拘留。这样的后果对于个人和小家庭来说可谓是代价惨痛，不管从任何角度都需要百分百避免。足球是一项容易引发情绪极大波动的赛事，因此这些年每次焦点大战中，从管理方的中国足协、中足联到各地方足协、俱乐部，都会赛前公开发文呼吁文明观赛，这不仅是赛事运行的需要，更是对每一位现场看球球迷的第一道守护。真正有力量的体育，不是让人变得更容易愤怒，而是让人懂得如何安放自己的情绪。这起引发大众争议的高流量事件，某种程度上是中国足球各方面综合因素有待提高的集大成体现。如果主队球迷能够恪守文明观赛的底线，如果普通观赛球迷能够更好理解足球中的德比文化，这起冲突本可以避免。然而对于中国足球来说，没有如果。